They are only 13 years old! Have you seen the show Suite Life of Zack and Cody on Disney Channel? Alright, I will admit that they are now, what, 15 years old? But still! I was watching a very old episode and when they were still in middle school, they had episodes about having a crush on a girl,and then lying and using their father's apartment for a private date. Are we seriously trying to ignite issues with our pre-teens? It is one thing for a kids' show to deal with the concept of first crush, first date, first kiss even, but it is another when the boys at 13! are sneaking around with girls. Disney and Nickelodeon shows that have older kids star, feel a need to incorporate dating in almost every episode. In fact, I don't believe Miley Cyrus has kept the same boyfriend for more than two consecutive episodes. What happens to all the love interests when the episode finishes? What is that teaching our youth? They can have a new boyfriend each week? Why not teach them the importance of respecting themselves so then others will respect them? We want our sons and daughters cared for by individuals who like them for who they are, not for something they can be molded into, or because they have a pretty face. There is so much more to a relationship than the shallow surface a lot of these shows put out there.
I guess I'm just concerned with the fact that this generation of pre-teens and early adolescents are growing up way too fast. Why must these shows perpetuate it even more? I don't think these shows should loose the boyfriend/girlfriend storylines, but definitely tone them down a bit. Let these kids be kids. That's why they are still watching shows on Nickelodeon and Disney Channel.















